Human design can be so impactful when it comes to our relationships. Understanding how we best operate and use our energy allows us to show up authentically in our relationships, and knowing how those close to us are meant to operate teaches us how we can best love on and support them.
So today, I wanted to share a few notes on what a dream friendship might look like for each human design type.
As a Projector, a dream friendship is…
- One where you invite me to spend time together and make me feel treasured and valued.
- One where you ask my advice and value my perspective.
- One where you honor the ebb and flow of my energy and don’t make me wrong for needing space and time alone.
- One where you recognize the gifts I’m here to share and create opportunities for me to share those gifts with the world.
- One where you ask me questions and are curious about me and how I see the world.
In summary, for Projectors, it’s friendships that make you feel treasured, where you’re asked questions and invited in to share your perspective, and where you’ve given space to move at a pace that works for you.
As a Generator, a dream friendship is…
- One that uplifts, energizes and inspires me.
- One where my boundaries are honored and my excitement and satisfaction are prioritized.
- One where I’m supported in honoring my gut response, and you ask me yes/no questions and give me options to help me drop into my gut.
- One where we can explore together the things that light us up and excite us.
- One where you’re curious and ask me questions, showing a deep interest in me and my passions.
In summary, for Generators, it’s friendships that energize you, where they’re curious about your passions, and where they communicate with you in a way that helps you connect to and trust your gut feeling.
As a Manifestor, a dream friendship is…
- One where you support me in taking the lead and doing things my way when I’m inspired.
- One where my power and impact is honored, not tempered, and you’re open to being inspired and initiated into a new, better way of doing things.
- One where the ebb and flow of my energy is honored and I’m not made wrong for taking space and time alone when I need.
- One where our communication is strong and intentional and makes us feel at ease and in trust of our connection.
- One that gives me peace.
In summary, for Manifestors, it’s friendships where your powerful, provocative and impactful nature is honored, where you feel free to do things your way, and where you can take space when you need.
As a Manifesting Generator, a dream friendship is…
- One that uplifts, energizes and inspires me.
- One where we can explore together the things that light us up and excite us.
- One where my excitement is prioritized and I’m not made wrong for pivoting or releasing a commitment — I evolve fast and that is honored.
- One where I’m supported in following my gut, and you ask me yes/no questions and give me options, helping me drop into it.
- One where you’re curious and ask me questions, showing a deep interest in me and my passions.
- One where my excitement and energy are valued without you trying to match it.
In summary, for Manifesting Generators, it’s friendships that inspire you, where you can pivot and evolve as you please, where you’re communicated to in a way that connects to your gut, and where your power is honored.
As a Reflector, a dream friendship is…
- One where you honor my sensitivity to space and we spend time in spaces that feel good to me (and you check in on me to make sure they do.)
- One where you value the gift of my perspective and invite me in to share it.
- One where I feel free to express however feels most authentic to me, even when it shifts.
- One where my need for rest, space and time alone is honored and encouraged.
- One where you treasure my uniqueness.
- One that uplifts and inspires me and just feels good.
In summary, for Reflectors, it’s friendships where your sensitivity to space is honored, when your uniqueness is treasured, where your perspective is sought out, and where your fluidity is appreciated.
